Dear adult daughter:

It occurred to me yesterday as I was looking for a new lancet device, to add to the list of what we will do for our daughter as an adult (see #2). Of course we hope to be the parents of adults who are always there for each of our children. We don't want to be taken advantage of or taken for granted, but I hope we can be relied upon for emotional or, if needed, financial, needs. K's in a unique situation though compared to her two older brothers, so here's what we'll say to her:

Dear adult daughter:

Please know that your father and I will always be there for you. You can call us anytime (or text, or whatever the THING to do is once you're an adult) for whatever reason. When it comes to your diabetes, we hope we have taught you well. We have taken care of you the way you need to take care of yourself for the rest of your life so that you can live a long and healthy one. Here are a few things we promise to you:

1. We know diabetes management is a big responsibility and a lot of work, and unlike a job or school or any other commitment (including parenthood!) you never get a break from it. If there is ever a day or group of days in which you "don't want to do diabetes", come to us. We'll count your carbs and bolus for food, we'll check your BG and correct if needed, we'll go over your numbers to see if settings should be changed, and we'll change your pump if needed.

2. Having diabetes is also expensive. You'll have medical costs as a young adult most people your age will never have to consider! We will always pay for those extra expenses, until you're worth more than we are :)

3. We will go to your endocrinology appointments with you when you want - because sometimes two sets of ears are better than one.

We love you so very much,
Mom and Dad